Wiped out can mean lots of different things: being tired, run down, to 'everything' being taken away from you. Today I experienced the latter, and boy was I on an emotional roller coaster. I was scared, I felt lost. I yelled, I got into arguments with my loved ones... why me? But then after hours of should-of's, could-of's, I realized that I was perceiving that everything was being taken away. I still had my family/friends, a shelter, and food. These three things being the most important things I could ever need or want. And if these things were still there, what was really being taken away? An object, an idea? How did I make this realization you wonder? Well....
1)
Take a nap. I knew that I wasn't making any decisions with a clear head.
2)
Listen. By taking a nap, I was able to hear criticisms, or concerns with an open heart (not being defensive) and get feedback on what to do in this situation.
3)
Stop and Ask. By asking myself, "What does 'everything' being taken away really mean to me?" I was hearing what other's thought, but how did I define it?
Step three was a turning point in my day. What matters the most is all around me. What more can I need!
Thank you for reading my "vague" description of the day! I would love to hear what you do when you've been wiped out!
I would Pray...and then take a nap. I tend to overreact so after a nap I might realize that it wasn't the end of the world.
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ReplyDeleteTesting again from anonymous...I would take a bath and soak ;+}
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